
For most of my young life, my relationship with my older sister was an unfortunate cliché. We fought. All. The. Freaking. Time. We argued over clothes, chores, the loyalty of our younger sister, etc. You name it, we probably had a screaming match about it at some point in time. We loved each other, we just didn’t
like each other all that much.
But then we both grew up a little. And, against all odds, started not only tolerating but actually enjoying each other’s company. We found common ground in our distinctly Russian tastebuds (lox and bagel, anyone?), our love of movies that are so bad they are actually awesome (we’ve watched more ABC Family specials than I would like to admit), and a fondness for bargain shopping at Nordstrom Rack and the Park City outlet mall.
In many ways Elena has become like a second mother to me and the rest of our siblings. When she was first married, Smash and I often escaped whatever chaos was going on at the Preo house by going to Elena's apartment (much to the delight of my brother-in-law I’m sure). And even now, six years later, we still flock to her home regularly for either a good meal or a good laugh. We watched her do everything first: leave home, get married, buy a house, have kids. And she did it all with an unwavering sense of confidence and self-assurance, two qualities that absolutely define my sister.
Elena is someone that I often go to for advice because I know she will tell me exactly what she thinks, and not just what I want to hear. She isn’t afraid to tell me that a dress makes me look like I'm carrying twins, or that renovating an old house requires way more work and money than anyone tells you. She doesn’t sugarcoat and I love her for that (most of the time). She is someone in my life that challenges me, but is always there for me when I need it. She helped me strip wallpaper in an old smelly kitchen when she was five months pregnant, gave me countless haircuts and eyebrow waxes in her kitchen over the years, and guided me through many an emotional crisis. Her friendship has been one of the most pleasant surprises of my life, and I feel fortunate to have not one, but two sisters that I can call my closest friends.
Happy 30th birthday, Helen! I'm so glad you don't dump milkshakes on my head anymore.